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My Joy!

Mommy Phebie — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 12:11:54 +0000

I’m just so thankful to God for these two wonderful gifts I’ve ever received in life aside from my hubby. Indeed, they are my joy! Love u both!

How to Discipline Your Child Effectively?

Mommy Phebie — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 14:12:07 +0000

This is the fourth session of our parenting class in our church. As parents, which one of you here are you using in disciplining your child/children?

1.PERMISSIVE- this are fearful parents.

They give HIGH LOVE to their children but give LOW DISCIPLINE.

2.NEGLECTFUL- this are forsaking parents.

Also known as passive parents or lukewarm parents. Children feel being abandoned or strange having no intimacy bonding and respect towards parents and vice versa.

They give LOW LOVE and LOW DISCIPLINE.

3.AUTHORITARIAN- this are fighting parents.

They produce rebellion children.

They give LOW LOVE but a HIGH DISCIPLINE.

4.AUTHORITATIVE- this are fellowshipping parents.

They are in control with discipline. They have time to bond and balances discipline to their children.

They give HIGH LOVE and at the same time HIGH DISCIPLINE!

The balanced, authoritative parent who combines high levels of support with high levels of control typically produced children with high self-esteem, good coping skills, and a positive relationship with parents.

She’s a big girl now!

Mommy Phebie — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 07:49:00 +0000

I just noticed nowadays that our little girl is no more a baby anymore. She has grown so fast, physically she’s a quite taller than before and of course I can say that she’s so witty as of her age now. She is so good in reasoning and she’s in her “I can do it” stage. If you’re to going to ask her some questions, she will immediately answer you back without a second thought! LOL! Thanks be to GOD for such wonderful blessings!

Daddy’s Sad Poem

Mommy Phebie — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 06:27:00 +0000

It is a beautiful poem written by a Father to save his Daughter. Do read it once…….. ….I am sure you also won’t be left untouched by the words and the feelings that they depict. The last stanza, after reading from the beginning, suddenly slows down the heart-beats. .

DAD – BABY RACHEL – MOM

A sad Dad’s poem…
This is a beautiful poem… There is an appeal from a Zimbabwean couple at the bottom of message, not asking for anything more than that you hand the poem on. The husband wrote the poem.

Here it goes:

Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.

Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.

Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry and pick you up and take you to the park to play.

Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.

Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.

Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.

Just for this afternoon, I won’t worry what you are going to be when you grow up or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.

Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won’t stand over you trying to fix them.

Just for this afternoon, I will take us to McDonald’s and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.

Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.

Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.

Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.

Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favourite TV shows.

Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.

I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children’s graves instead of their bedrooms. The mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly and screaming inside that little body . And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day……… ….